信任的缺失与以不信任为基础的结构（The absence of trust and the structure based on distrust）.doc

信任的缺失与以不信任为基础的结构（The absence of trust and the structure based on distrust） The absence of trust and the structure based on distrust Someone has told such two stories: A man feels that he does not believe in his right hand in his left hand now. The left hand helps the right hand tickle, and the right hand thinks it is so comfortable. I dont know where it is.. The right hand rubs the soap for the left hand, the left hand thinks, rubs so vigorously, and then wants to do what? Two hands is a bowl of hot soup, I want to have your left hand, right hand holding, dont expect the right hand; also think so. As a result, he doubled his strength. A man gave him an initiation lesson when he was three or four years old: he had to drink water, and he gave him a drink. The son took a big gulp and began to cry. He said, who told you not to try hot, not hot, and all have to try their own, who do not believe, nor can my father believe.. The story itself is a bit absurd. But if we change our roles to two businessmen in our market, Im afraid the story will be common and commonplace. Even in other social settings, the same logic does not exist entirely, but the difference is only in varying degrees. In recent years, the lack of trust in our social life has aroused peoples attention. As a matter of fact, trust is the basic foundation of social life. If not at least trust, our life will cant do anything possible. For example, we have to buy food stall. You say I want two kilos of tomatoes. Often, peddler said a couple of pounds to you, fell in your hand pocket. If at this time you do not admit that the tomato in your pocket has just come in, the vendor has little proof that the tomato has just come in. But generally speaking, such a situation will not happen. The seller may think little of pour into the tomatoes, and you wont recognize. This is because he has a basic trust in you. Then the vendor will say: two kilos of tomatoes in a total of 2 yuan. You said you didnt have any change, and