如何加强自己的语言表达能力（How to strengthen your language ability）.doc

如何加强自己的语言表达能力（How to strengthen your language ability） How to improve your language ability? Should pay attention to communication problems in Many people have no way to express his thoughts and works not to him but the expression. If it can be reduced In the less communication misunderstanding can do good communication. To learn to communicate first learning the obedient to learn how to understand others, listen -- Questioning - talk 1, the target price structure - always check the goal of doing this 2 and 28 rules. Good communication in the 80% to 20% in the 80% said asking questions in say 20%. only Have to ask the right questions to guide the others ideas and concepts but let each other to convince myself. 3, do not interrupt others The best way is to let your physiological state to establish affinity with each other within the synchronization. Good at listening to the affinity to the people Constantly encouraging others to speak 4, do not point out other peoples mistakes The use of a framework I understand - and I agree that, at the same time exergy 5, do not guess the other sides mind Were not the listener interested develop the habits of reading 6, lifting resistance in communication The other is the lack of information exergy resist the other is asking you more information in 1 listen to exergy will guide the transformation of the attention of the other party In 2, agreed to admit exergy. In 3 test in exergy exergy understand each others personality model 4 will use the mode of communication, exergy use the correct mode of communication to avoid the resistance In the 5 frame to exergy Convert a persons definition of something. Speak with a certain degree of elasticity. Change each other and each other in a timely manner A definition or view of something 7. Ask questions The problem can lead people thinking the ability to persuade and influence must learn to ask good questions 1. Never say no to yourself without cause or reaso