观察孩子五种过分依赖的表现（Observe the childs five excessive dependence）.doc

观察孩子五种过分依赖的表现（Observe the childs five excessive dependence） Everyone likes a lively and cheerful child, but some babies are shy, pestering, unsociable and so dependent on adult children. In fact, the child who is too dependent on man is easy to see in his ordinary performance, but we are all lack of observation. Here, lets look at five ways that children are too dependent. Be shy Some children are shy and shy, so there are strangers in the family. So small children, with commensurate with age is extremely quiet is not active, each time to my friends house door, she will also be noisy dont go all the way, even here, the same is not somebody elses home. Psychoanalysis of children: Character is determined by the nature of the child. Quieter immobile, shy, poor adaptability belongs to the introverted child, they are something new or a stranger, often adopt the method of refuse, when something goes wrong, the external reaction could soon be seen. Second, there are problems with parenting. Some impatient parents and impatient parents are too demanding, too strict, too strict and too restrictive. Have a plenty of grandpas grandmother took the child, they always accompany the child to play, but be careful yi yi of the old man is always afraid of the outside not safe, let a child lost the opportunity to contact and interaction with others, thus become bravery filial piety shy, dependence is strong. And parents education by adopting the method of punishment, corporal punishment, threats often children, for children some sensitive and emotional stability, will make the child nerve is in a state of excessive tension for a long time, over time, children will become bravery filial piety withdrawn. Childrens performance at ordinary times often can response of his character, quality problems, such as it is necessary for parents to the childs behavior for observation at ordinary times, to get to know their temperament, and using the correct education method to guide children, such a