十只狐狸,十种心态（Ten foxes, ten states of mind）.doc

十只狐狸,十种心态（Ten foxes, ten states of mind） Ten foxes, ten states of mind There is an old story: in a farmers orchard, purple grapes covered with branches, is unable to hide greeds, of course, this delicious also escaped pitch camp in the vicinity of the fox , they would like to enjoy. The first fox came to the grape trellis. It found that the grape trellis was far higher than its height. It stands in the following, want to think, do not want to give up, the opportunity is rare! After thinking for a moment, he found the ladder next to the grape trellis, recalling that the farmer had used it. As a result, he learned to climb like a farmer and successfully picked the grapes. The fox uses the problem solving method. It faces the problem directly, does not escape, and finally solves the problem The second fox came to the grape trellis and found that it was impossible to eat grapes for the first time. Therefore, he thought to himself, this grape must be sour, and it is very hard to eat, and might as well not eat it.. So he left in a happy mood. (this fox is the use of psychology is often mentioned sour grapes effect, also known as ornamentation or rational explanation, which can meet the needs of individual reason cannot achieve the goal of self.) The third fox came to the grape trellis. It had just read how the steel was made, and was deeply moved by the heros spirit. He was not discouraged to see the tall grape vine. He thought, I can jump up. As long as I work hard, I can certainly get it.. There is a man who has the will to do so, but when it does not, he jumps more and more low and ends up under the grape trellis. The foxs behavior is called stubborn in psychology, that is, repeated repeated invalid acts, sometimes called obsessive compulsive disorder. It shows that not everything is the best solution to the problem, depending on their ability, the circumstances and other factors The fourth fox came to the grape trellis, and it was faced with the same problem. He turne