中西方恋爱婚姻观的差异.ppt

The differences of love between western and chinese The time that love holding is different western They believe in love at first sight, and they enjoy the feeling of love rather than bound by marriage. They have strong individualism and self-conciousness. If they are married, property will be chosed to notarize. many Western people sustain a loving relationship, instead of choosing to marry. chinese In China, under the influence of traditional culture, they think that love is just for a moment, it is not as reliable as marriage,and will choose to marry in a period after they confirm their relationship. Once their relationship established, Theyre gonna to live together forever. The expression of love style is different western love is open, warm and romantic express very direct chinese love is relatively conservative connotative(含蓄) The attitudes towards love is different western religious culture love is divine, Supreme They advocate free love，love is the basis of marriage chinese aftected by elders relatively material,and lack of western sacred For westerners, love is supreme,and a man can sacrifice all for love, a woman also can abandon everything. But in China , marriage is not based on love, marriage can maintain without love,and love does not can guarantee the realization of marriage. 对于西方人来说，爱情至上，男人为了爱情可以牺牲一切，女人为了爱情也会舍弃一切。中国的婚姻并不以爱情为基础，婚姻可以没有爱情，而爱情也不一定能够保证婚姻的实现 中国人结婚的目的 《礼记昏义》说：“合两性之好，上以事宗庙，而下以继后世也。”就是说，中国传统的婚姻目的是：一是通过联姻合两大家族之优势，扩大亲属同盟，即“结缘”；二是为了男性家庭继承家庭的血统，传宗接代，即“继统”。 当然，在现今的中国社会中，这种传统的婚姻目的受到了极大的冲击。男女青年往往选择“爱情至上”的婚姻。但是在中国这样一个极富传统的社会，要使爱情变为婚姻的主要目的，仍然不是一件简单的事情。  The differences of marriage relationship The differences of marriage between western and chinese ● The different purpose of marriage The standard of choosing a spouse The western purpose of marriage : people who is fall in love with each other that hope to have a perfect result. looking for a long-life partner, and they can meet their physiologi