读懂身体语言知其内心.docx

读懂身体语言知其内心

Everytimeyourewithamanorheswithyou,eachofyouisgivingoffsignalsthatyoumightnotevenbeawareof.Iwanttosharesomeofthesewithyoubecauseonceyougetthis...itslikehavingabehind-the-scenesplaybookforknowingwhetherornothesintoyou.

Leaningintellsamanyourewarm,friendlyandinterested.

Whenwelikesomeone,wehaveasubconscious tendency toleanintowardsthem.Whenyoudothisoryoutipyourheadorbodyforward,youareshowin

gamanthatyouarefriendlyandwarm.Whenyoupullawayorsitwaybacki

nyourchair,inessence youretellingamanthatyoureturnedoffandnotinterestedinhim.

Wanttoknowifhesinterestedinyou?

Ifyourestandingandtalking,lookdowntoseethedirectionhisfeetarepointing.Iftheyrepointingtowardyou...itsagoodsignthathesintoyou.Hisfeetpointedawayfromyouisaprettygood indicator thathesnotgoingtoaskyouforaseconddate.Andwhenhesstandingwithonefootpointedtowards

youandonefoottowardsthedoor,hesdoneandreadytogo.

Whenyoureonadate,dontcrossyourarmsorputyourpursedirectlyinfrontofyourbody.

Ifhisarmsarecrossed,itslikelyheseitherclosedofforprotectinghimselfinsomeway.Whenthishappens,tryleaningintowardshim.Thisisthe signal

forlettinghimknowyoureinterested,whichmaycausehimtodrophisarmsandopenuptoyou.Ifhecontinuesthedatewithhisarmscrossedoverhischestthenchancesarethisdateisheading nowhere.Useanexitstrategy andmoveontosomeonewhosebodylanguageshowsyouhesintoyou.

Dontinvade hisspacebysittingtooclosewhenyoufirstmeetunlessheinvitesyouintohisspace.

Thespacebetweenfiveand18inchesisconsideredtheintimatezone.Itsagreatspacetobeinwhenyoureinarelationshipandyouwantromanceandintimacy.Butwhenyourejustmeetingsomeonestayalittlemorethananar

mslengthfromthemunlesstheygiveyousignalsviatouch